[Java] Update dependencies and plugins for JPMS module support

[jduo]

Describe the enhancement requested

Several dependencies and plugins need to be updated to support modules:

• gRPC 1.59 has improved module support
• CycloneDX needs to be upgraded to work with gRPC 1.59.
• Standardize projects to use the same version of maven-shade-plugin when possible.
• maven-dependency-plugin needs an update to be able to read module-info.class files.
• Jackson 2.15.1 has a bug that prevents modules from loading it correctly.
• maven-compiler-plugin needs to be updated to 3.11.0 to allow turning off use of the module-path

Component(s)

Java