ARROW-6871: [Java] Enhance TransferPair related parameters check and tests

[tianchen92]

Related to ARROW-6871.

TransferPair related param checks in different classes have potential problems:

i. splitAndTansfer has no indices check in classes like VarcharVector
ii. splitAndTranser indices check in classes like UnionVector is not correct (Preconditions.checkArgument(startIndex + length <= valueCount)), should check params separately.
iii. should add more UT to cover corner cases.

[tianchen92]

cc @siddharthteotia

[github-actions]

https://issues.apache.org/jira/browse/ARROW-6871

[tianchen92]

also cc @praveenbingo appreciate if you have time to take a look.

[emkornfield]

@tianchen92 did you add the benchmark you mentioned in the JIRA?

[tianchen92]

@tianchen92 did you add the benchmark you mentioned in the JIRA?

I added a benchmark for copyValueSafe and shows no regression, however, due to #5645 (comment), I finally revert the check in copyValueSafe API.
Need to add benchmark for other API related to this PR?

[tianchen92]

I add a benchmark and shows no regression.

Before:
Benchmark Mode Cnt Score Error Units
TransferPairBenchmarks.splitAndTransferIntVector avgt 5 1.801 ± 0.119 us/op
TransferPairBenchmarks.splitAndTransferVarcharVector avgt 5 12.794 ± 0.812 us/op

After:
Benchmark Mode Cnt Score Error Units
TransferPairBenchmarks.splitAndTransferIntVector avgt 5 1.800 ± 0.102 us/op
TransferPairBenchmarks.splitAndTransferVarcharVector avgt 5 12.570 ± 1.339 us/op

[emkornfield]

+1 thanks.