[BEAM-12628][cherry-pick] add ReflectDatum{Reader,Writer} option for AvroCoder

[clairemcginty]

cherry-picks #15292 onto the 2.32.0 release branch--cc @iemejia per #15292 (comment)

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[iemejia]

R @angoenka

The mentioned cherry pick

[angoenka]

I will cherrypick it if I end up creating a new RC.

[clairemcginty]

hi @angoenka, did this end up making it into RC1?

[aaltay]

Closing this since 2.32.0 release completed.