[fix](Nereids) set operation children output order not same

[morrySnow]

we generate project for all set operation's children to ensure the order of all children are not changed. However, some rules, such as PushDownProjectThroughLimit could remove these projects involuntarily. When it happen, the column order maybe wrong and lead to BE core dump. This PR use a new variable in SetOperation to save the output order of children of set operation. Then the children's output order could be changed and never affect to SetOperation at all.

Proposed changes

Issue Number: close #xxx

Further comments

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[morrySnow]

run buildall

[morrySnow]

run buildall

[doris-robot]

(From new machine)TeamCity pipeline, clickbench performance test result:
the sum of best hot time: 50.06 seconds
stream load tsv: 550 seconds loaded 74807831229 Bytes, about 129 MB/s
stream load json: 21 seconds loaded 2358488459 Bytes, about 107 MB/s
stream load orc: 64 seconds loaded 1101869774 Bytes, about 16 MB/s
stream load parquet: 31 seconds loaded 861443392 Bytes, about 26 MB/s
insert into select: 29.0 seconds inserted 10000000 Rows, about 344K ops/s
storage size: 17162033377 Bytes

[morrySnow]

run buildall

[doris-robot]

(From new machine)TeamCity pipeline, clickbench performance test result:
the sum of best hot time: 47.98 seconds
stream load tsv: 543 seconds loaded 74807831229 Bytes, about 131 MB/s
stream load json: 21 seconds loaded 2358488459 Bytes, about 107 MB/s
stream load orc: 64 seconds loaded 1101869774 Bytes, about 16 MB/s
stream load parquet: 30 seconds loaded 861443392 Bytes, about 27 MB/s
insert into select: 28.7 seconds inserted 10000000 Rows, about 348K ops/s
storage size: 17162408913 Bytes

[morrySnow]

run buildall

[doris-robot]

(From new machine)TeamCity pipeline, clickbench performance test result:
the sum of best hot time: 49.84 seconds
stream load tsv: 580 seconds loaded 74807831229 Bytes, about 123 MB/s
stream load json: 20 seconds loaded 2358488459 Bytes, about 112 MB/s
stream load orc: 65 seconds loaded 1101869774 Bytes, about 16 MB/s
stream load parquet: 32 seconds loaded 861443392 Bytes, about 25 MB/s
insert into select: 28.8 seconds inserted 10000000 Rows, about 347K ops/s
storage size: 17162372866 Bytes

[morrySnow]

run buildall

[doris-robot]

(From new machine)TeamCity pipeline, clickbench performance test result:
the sum of best hot time: 49.12 seconds
stream load tsv: 600 seconds loaded 74807831229 Bytes, about 118 MB/s
stream load json: 20 seconds loaded 2358488459 Bytes, about 112 MB/s
stream load orc: 64 seconds loaded 1101869774 Bytes, about 16 MB/s
stream load parquet: 31 seconds loaded 861443392 Bytes, about 26 MB/s
insert into select: 29.2 seconds inserted 10000000 Rows, about 342K ops/s
storage size: 17162564840 Bytes

[morrySnow]

run buildall

[doris-robot]

(From new machine)TeamCity pipeline, clickbench performance test result:
the sum of best hot time: 48.11 seconds
stream load tsv: 597 seconds loaded 74807831229 Bytes, about 119 MB/s
stream load json: 20 seconds loaded 2358488459 Bytes, about 112 MB/s
stream load orc: 64 seconds loaded 1101869774 Bytes, about 16 MB/s
stream load parquet: 31 seconds loaded 861443392 Bytes, about 26 MB/s
insert into select: 29.1 seconds inserted 10000000 Rows, about 343K ops/s
storage size: 17162227883 Bytes

[morrySnow]

run buildall

[doris-robot]

(From new machine)TeamCity pipeline, clickbench performance test result:
the sum of best hot time: 46.08 seconds
stream load tsv: 598 seconds loaded 74807831229 Bytes, about 119 MB/s
stream load json: 20 seconds loaded 2358488459 Bytes, about 112 MB/s
stream load orc: 64 seconds loaded 1101869774 Bytes, about 16 MB/s
stream load parquet: 32 seconds loaded 861443392 Bytes, about 25 MB/s
insert into select: 29.0 seconds inserted 10000000 Rows, about 344K ops/s
storage size: 17162234710 Bytes

[morrySnow]

run buildall

[doris-robot]

(From new machine)TeamCity pipeline, clickbench performance test result:
the sum of best hot time: 46.5 seconds
stream load tsv: 608 seconds loaded 74807831229 Bytes, about 117 MB/s
stream load json: 20 seconds loaded 2358488459 Bytes, about 112 MB/s
stream load orc: 64 seconds loaded 1101869774 Bytes, about 16 MB/s
stream load parquet: 31 seconds loaded 861443392 Bytes, about 26 MB/s
insert into select: 29.1 seconds inserted 10000000 Rows, about 343K ops/s
storage size: 17162489596 Bytes

[github-actions]

PR approved by at least one committer and no changes requested.

[github-actions]

PR approved by anyone and no changes requested.