[chore](tablet-manager) add log to detect cost of tablets move to trash

[eldenmoon]

Proposed changes

Issue Number: close #xxx

Further comments

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[github-actions]

clang-tidy review says "All clean, LGTM! 👍"

[eldenmoon]

run buildall

[github-actions]

clang-tidy review says "All clean, LGTM! 👍"

[eldenmoon]

run buildall

[doris-robot]

TeamCity be ut coverage result:
Function Coverage: 37.95% (7982/21032)
Line Coverage: 29.66% (64763/218317)
Region Coverage: 29.10% (33362/114634)
Branch Coverage: 24.97% (17137/68642)
Coverage Report: http://coverage.selectdb-in.cc/coverage/0d7b050e85d9b91e5ae192e26834a2782a76ea8d_0d7b050e85d9b91e5ae192e26834a2782a76ea8d/report/index.html

[yujun777]

pr #27693 make wait time shortern

[doris-robot]

(From new machine)TeamCity pipeline, clickbench performance test result:
the sum of best hot time: 46.58 seconds
stream load tsv: 566 seconds loaded 74807831229 Bytes, about 126 MB/s
stream load json: 24 seconds loaded 2358488459 Bytes, about 93 MB/s
stream load orc: 71 seconds loaded 1101869774 Bytes, about 14 MB/s
stream load parquet: 32 seconds loaded 861443392 Bytes, about 25 MB/s
insert into select: 29.6 seconds inserted 10000000 Rows, about 337K ops/s
storage size: 17162530600 Bytes