[To dev/1.3] Optimize the configuration logic of dn_thrift_max_frame_size

[HTHou]

Summary

Cherry-pick the changes from #16724 onto dev/1.3.

This brings over the optimized dn_thrift_max_frame_size configuration logic, including automatic default calculation from JVM max memory and preserving user-configured positive values.

Notes

• Cherry-picked commits from Optimize the configuration logic of dn_thrift_max_frame_size #16724:
  • 8ffc33a
  • 93996bf
  • a7b9b83
• Resolved one conflict in TElasticFramedTransport.java by keeping the existing dev/1.3 write-frame size check and applying the PR's read-frame validation refactor.

Validation

./mvnw -pl iotdb-core/datanode -am -DskipTests -Dspotless.check.skip=true -Dcheckstyle.skip=true compile

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Quality Gate passed

Issues
0 New issues
0 Accepted issues

Measures
0 Security Hotspots
0.0% Coverage on New Code
0.2% Duplication on New Code

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Codecov Report

❌ Patch coverage is 82.22222% with 8 lines in your changes missing coverage. Please review.
✅ Project coverage is 41.62%. Comparing base (04e6684) to head (e0f4498).

Files with missing lines	Patch %	Lines
.../org/apache/iotdb/rpc/TElasticFramedTransport.java	82.05%	7 Missing ⚠️
...e/iotdb/rpc/TCompressedElasticFramedTransport.java	0.00%	1 Missing ⚠️

Additional details and impacted files

@@ Coverage Diff @@## dev/1.3 #17603 +/- ##
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- Coverage 41.62% 41.62% -0.01% 
Complexity 234 234 =============================================
Files 3610 3610 Lines 238026 238054 +28 Branches 28892 28896 +4 =============================================
+ Hits 99086 99091 +5 - Misses 138940 138963 +23 

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