GH-3213: Add the configuration for ByteStreamSplit encoding

[joeyutong]

Rationale for this change

Add the configuration for ByteStreamSplit encoding for a specific column when building ParquetWriter

What changes are included in this PR?

A new config method

Are these changes tested?

No

Are there any user-facing changes?

Yes when building ParquetWriter e.g.

ParquetWriter<Group> writer =
ExampleParquetWriter.builder(...)
.withByteStreamSplitEncoding("int32_field", true)
...

Closes#3213

[wgtmac]

Thanks for adding this! Could you please check if there is any test case covering it? If not, it would be good to add one to make sure it takes effect.

[joeyutong]

Added the corresponding test. Thanks for your reminder

[wgtmac]

+1 Thanks @joeyutong!

cc @gszadovszky@Fokko

[wgtmac]

Could you help rebase to re-trigger the failed CIs? I'll merge after all CIs are passed.

[joeyutong]

@wgtmac Sorry for the late response. Would you still be available to take another look when you have a moment?

[wgtmac]

Thanks @joeyutong!