[SPARK-46768][BUILD] Upgrade Guava used by the connect module to 33.0-jre

[LuciferYang]

What changes were proposed in this pull request?

This pr aims to upgrade Guava used by the connect module from 32.0.1-jre to 33.0-jre, at the same time, upgrade ·failureaccess·, which is used in conjunction with Guava, from version 1.01 to 1.02.

Why are the changes needed?

The new version bring some changes as follows:

• net: Optimized InternetDomainName construction. (google/guava@3a1d18f, google/guava@eaa62eb)
• util.concurrent: Changed our implementations to avoid eagerly initializing loggers during class loading. This can help performance. (google/guava@4fe1df5)

The full release notes as follows:

• https://github.com/google/guava/releases/tag/v32.1.2
• https://github.com/google/guava/releases/tag/v32.1.3
• https://github.com/google/guava/releases/tag/v33.0.0

Does this PR introduce any user-facing change?

No

How was this patch tested?

Pass GitHub Actions

Was this patch authored or co-authored using generative AI tooling?

No

[yaooqinn]

Thanks @LuciferYang @dongjoon-hyun, merged to master

[LuciferYang]

Thanks @yaooqinn @dongjoon-hyun