Don't export instance

[lukechilds]

Resolves#365

Made the change mentioned in #365. Also fixed tests to work with new syntax.

[spion]

While its a good idea, this is also likely to break a lot of apps using node-sql

[lukechilds]

@spion Yep, would definitely have to be SemVer major.

Should just be a search and replace to update though:

constsql=require('sql');

to:

constSql=require('sql');constsql=newSql();

Which is probably what most developers intended to implement.

[lukechilds]

Or to make upgrading super easy we could wrap the export in a function:

module.exports=newSql(DEFAULT_DIALECT,{});

would become

module.exports=()=>newSql(DEFAULT_DIALECT,{});

And then you could literally do a search/replace to upgrade:

require('sql')->require('sql')()

But personally I'd go with the first option.