`<memory>` etc.: ADL should be avoided when calling `_Construct_in_place` and its friends

[frederick-vs-ja]

This well-formed program fails to compile with MSVC STL due to unqualified calls to internal functions (which trigger ADL and overly require completeness of related types).

#include <any>
#include <concepts>
#include <functional>
#include <memory>
#include <optional>
#include <variant>

struct Incomplete;

template<class T>
struct Holder {
    T t;
};

using Ptr = Holder<Incomplete>*;

int main()
{
    std::make_shared<Ptr>();
    std::make_shared<Ptr[]>(42);
    std::function<void(Ptr)>{std::identity{}};
    std::any{Ptr{}};
    std::optional<Ptr>{}.emplace();
    std::variant<Ptr>{}.emplace<Ptr>();
}

Godbolt link. (libc++ accepts it correctly)

This is similar to #1596 but touches different library mechanisms, and should be considered as a sub-issue of #140.
Previously, 3 libc++ tests were blocked by this issue:

• std/utilities/function.objects/func.wrap/func.wrap.func/robust_against_adl.pass.cpp
• std/utilities/memory/allocator.traits/allocator.traits.members/construct.pass.cpp
• std/utilities/memory/allocator.traits/allocator.traits.members/destroy.pass.cpp

Perhaps we should _STD-qualify internal function calls used for in-place construction/destruction by default, especially for _Construct_in_place, _Destroy_in_place, and _Voidify_iter (_Voidify_iter was killed when implementing LWG-3870).

• Issues of variant are fixed by _STD-qualify _Ugly non-member function calls in <variant> #3148.
• Issues of any are fixed by Bugfixes for <any> #3965.
• Issues of allocator are fixed by Properly destroy vector<shared_ptr<uninstantiable>> #4373.
• Issues of shared_ptr are fixed by <memory>: ADL-proof implementation of shared_ptr creation functions and atomic smart pointers #4403.
• Issues of function, etc. are fixed by ADL-proof implementation of function, move_only_function, packaged_task, promise, and optional #4430.
• Issues of valarray are fixed by <valarray>: Make valarray ADL-proof as required #5157.

[frederick-vs-ja]

Remaining unqualified _Construct_in_place and _Destroy_in_place calls after #5157 are all in associative containers, unordered associative containers, basic_string, forward_list, and list.