feat: public API for runtime handler registration/deregistration

[BabyChrist666]

Summary

Adds public methods for registering and deregistering request/notification handlers at runtime on the low-level Server class:

• add_request_handler(method, handler) — register a request handler
• remove_request_handler(method) — deregister a request handler
• add_notification_handler(method, handler) — register a notification handler
• remove_notification_handler(method) — deregister a notification handler
• has_handler(method) — check if a handler exists for a given method

This enables frameworks and advanced use cases to register handlers for protocol extensions or custom methods after server construction, and to remove or replace handlers dynamically (feature flags, hot-reloading, test fixtures).

Also refactors ExperimentalHandlers to use the new public API instead of receiving private method references, validating the API with its first internal consumer.

Design note

The issue proposed method: str as the key — this aligns with the current internal architecture where _request_handlers is a dict[str, ...] keyed by JSON-RPC method names. The private _add_request_handler and _has_handler methods remain for backward compatibility but the public API is the recommended path forward.

Test plan

• 12 new tests covering add/remove/has for both request and notification handlers
• Existing lowlevel server tests pass (24/24)
• Experimental handler tests pass (217 passed, 96 skipped)
• CI passes

Fixes#2135

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[BabyChrist666]

The CI failure here (TestChildProcessCleanup.test_basic_child_process_cleanup on Windows 3.12) is a pre-existing flakiness in the old file-based test approach — it's unrelated to the handler registration changes in this PR.

The root cause was fixed in #2265 (merged Mar 12) which rewrote TestChildProcessCleanup with a deterministic socket-based liveness probe. This branch predates that merge so it still carries the old timing-sensitive tests.

A rebase onto main will pull in #2265's fix and should make CI green. The actual feature code in this PR is untouched by that rebase.

[maxisbey]

Thanks for the PR. This has since landed via #2710. I'm closing this out as part of a backlog cleanup now that v2 is out. Feel free to reopen if this is still relevant.

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