stream: fix merge handling for object-like sources

[trivikr]

merge() previously treated any final non-iterable object as an options
object, which dropped valid inputs that from() accepts, including
ArrayBuffer, ArrayBufferView, and objects implementing
Stream.toStreamable or Stream.toAsyncStreamable.

This updates the options-object heuristic to preserve those valid source
types and adds regression coverage for the affected cases.

Fixes: #63355

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Assisted-by: openai:gpt-5.5

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Review requested:

• @nodejs/streams

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Codecov Report

✅ All modified and coverable lines are covered by tests.
✅ Project coverage is 90.05%. Comparing base (2d6cbea) to head (2502bfe).
⚠️ Report is 12 commits behind head on main.

Additional details and impacted files

@@ Coverage Diff @@## main #63356 +/- ##
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- Coverage 90.06% 90.05% -0.01% 
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Files 714 714 Lines 225502 225524 +22 Branches 42628 42639 +11 ==========================================
+ Hits 203089 203090 +1 - Misses 14195 14218 +23 + Partials 8218 8216 -2 

Files with missing lines	Coverage Δ
lib/internal/streams/iter/consumers.js	96.61% <100.00%> (+0.05%)	⬆️

... and 44 files with indirect coverage changes

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CI: https://ci.nodejs.org/job/node-test-pull-request/73495/

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