fix(refactor): use output buffer and error for more commands

[lukekarrys]

This changes a bunch of commands to use the new output.buffer capabilities from proc-log as well as the outputError helper from utils/output-error.js.

This also adds a few comments about future display related breaking changes that npm should make.

There is some new behavior around run-script and how it outputs errors. It now displays the error for each workspace similar to how that error would get displayed when the process exits.

Here are some screenshots of the new run-script output to show with coloring. These are all represented in snapshots as well both those can be hard to decipher with ansi codes. The screenshots are run via set -x; npm $@; npmlocal $@ so the output preceded with + npm is just to show the command being run.

Running a non-existent command from multiple workspaces

Running a script that errors from multiple workspaces

Listing scripts

The only change here is I removed the newline between lifecycle scripts and run scripts. I find the indent shows the hierarchy of information and the extra newline made it difficult to quickly scan multiple workspaces which are also separated by newlines.

[npm-cli-bot]

no statistically significant performance changes detected

timing results

app-large	clean	lock-only	cache-only	modules-only	no-lock	no-cache	no-modules	no-clean	show-version	run-script	cache-only peer-deps	no-clean audit
npm@latest	37.754 ±0.71	10.985 ±0.00	12.062 ±0.05	1.588 ±0.00	1.587 ±0.01	1.307 ±0.00	8.415 ±0.08	1.319 ±0.01	0.143 ±0.00	0.170 ±0.00	13.827 ±0.15	3.965 ±2.58
#7513	35.637 ±0.80	10.876 ±0.00	12.096 ±0.21	1.585 ±0.01	1.564 ±0.01	1.291 ±0.01	8.687 ±0.39	1.325 ±0.00	0.142 ±0.00	0.170 ±0.00	15.174 ±0.19	2.163 ±0.01

app-medium	clean	lock-only	cache-only	modules-only	no-lock	no-cache	no-modules	no-clean	show-version	run-script	cache-only peer-deps	no-clean audit
npm@latest	28.833 ±0.18	8.128 ±0.08	9.090 ±0.00	1.554 ±0.01	1.530 ±0.00	1.454 ±0.00	5.951 ±0.03	1.358 ±0.02	0.143 ±0.00	0.170 ±0.00	9.642 ±0.02	3.307 ±1.87
#7513	27.231 ±3.68	8.240 ±0.04	9.029 ±0.02	1.534 ±0.01	1.540 ±0.03	1.518 ±0.02	5.882 ±0.01	1.335 ±0.01	0.142 ±0.00	0.170 ±0.00	9.944 ±0.12	2.049 ±0.09