_Py_DECREF_SPECIALIZED doesn't respect pymalloc tracking

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PR #30872 added _Py_DECREF_SPECIALIZED which calls destruct over the object. When destruct is PyObject_Free this skips tracemalloc counting reporting that the memory is alive. This also makes debuggers segfault because they think that the object is alive because they did not get a notification. This is the code that's not getting called:

cpython/Objects/object.c

Lines 2924 to 2928 in 2e950e3

	struct _reftracer_runtime_state *tracer = &_PyRuntime.ref_tracer;
	if (tracer->tracer_func != NULL) {
	void* data = tracer->tracer_data;
	tracer->tracer_func(op, PyRefTracer_DESTROY, data);
	}

This may also qualify a regression as makes tracemalloc detect incorrect memory usage for these objects

Linked PRs

• gh-125703: Correctly honour tracemalloc hooks on specialized DECREF paths #125704
• [3.13] gh-125703: Correctly honour tracemalloc hooks on specialized DECREF paths (GH-125704) #125705
• [3.11] gh-125703: Correctly honour tracemalloc hooks on specialized DECREF paths (GH-125704) #125706
• [3.12] gh-125703: Correctly honour tracemalloc hooks on specialized DECREF paths (GH-125704) #125707
• gh-125703: Correctly honour tracemalloc hooks on more PyDECREF specialized paths #125712
• [3.13] gh-125703: Correctly honour tracemalloc hooks on more PyDECREF specialized paths (GH-125712) #125791

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CC: @sweeneyde @Yhg1s

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CC: @mdboom @markshannon

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I suspect that we are missing more calls to tracemalloc hooks when the memory is reused. Basically every call to _Py_ForgetReference needs to have a call to tracemalloc hooks but the ones left happen in reallocations, so I would tackle those later when this is fixed.