[3.11] gh-88177: Revert the new asyncio.sslproto implementation

[ambv]

This reverts #31275 and #31597 for Python 3.11 which enters Release Candidate stage tomorrow while an unresolved issue is present in the new code.

See #95573 for details.

• Issue: Borrow asyncio ssl implementation from uvloop #88177

[bedevere-bot]

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[ambv]

This PR will hopefully not be necessary. I did stress-test it with -j8 -F on my M1 Max and it looks solid:

== Tests result: INTERRUPTED ==
Test suite interrupted by signal SIGINT.
1696 tests OK.
Total duration: 4 hour 42 min
Tests result: INTERRUPTED
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Executed in 282.18 mins fish external
usr time 1180.99 mins 43.00 micros 1180.99 mins
sys time 34.76 mins 366.00 micros 34.76 mins