[branch-3.0](log) Pick all BE execution log reduction

[zclllyybb]

pick #42383
pick #42900

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[zclllyybb]

run buildall

[github-actions]

clang-tidy review says "All clean, LGTM! 👍"

[doris-robot]

TPC-H: Total hot run time: 41033 ms

machine: 'aliyun_ecs.c7a.8xlarge_32C64G'
scripts: https://github.com/apache/doris/tree/master/tools/tpch-tools
Tpch sf100 test result on commit a35b1eaee60d232b5ffe91ec285aaa127f1ba045, data reload: false
------ Round 1 ----------------------------------
q1	17660	7501	7374	7374
q2	2072	174	167	167
q3	10733	1072	1171	1072
q4	10555	763	806	763
q5	7744	2845	2858	2845
q6	241	152	150	150
q7	994	614	605	605
q8	9375	2009	2032	2009
q9	6599	6440	6470	6440
q10	6998	2297	2299	2297
q11	455	265	261	261
q12	403	223	219	219
q13	17756	2959	2971	2959
q14	237	204	214	204
q15	573	506	507	506
q16	674	609	594	594
q17	1003	569	552	552
q18	7229	6636	6600	6600
q19	3339	1038	1053	1038
q20	496	201	194	194
q21	4006	3182	3356	3182
q22	1099	1002	1009	1002
Total cold run time: 110241 ms
Total hot run time: 41033 ms
----- Round 2, with runtime_filter_mode=off -----
q1	7409	7266	7278	7266
q2	426	314	322	314
q3	3040	2961	2880	2880
q4	2146	1795	1826	1795
q5	5696	5737	5713	5713
q6	226	141	147	141
q7	2211	1780	1746	1746
q8	3441	3556	3473	3473
q9	8931	8928	8844	8844
q10	3549	3501	3538	3501
q11	598	504	499	499
q12	840	579	587	579
q13	16478	3170	3175	3170
q14	307	277	290	277
q15	597	551	543	543
q16	702	675	689	675
q17	1871	1616	1619	1616
q18	8280	7787	7478	7478
q19	2643	1645	1638	1638
q20	2090	1861	1847	1847
q21	5423	5331	5185	5185
q22	1092	1019	1013	1013
Total cold run time: 77996 ms
Total hot run time: 60193 ms

[doris-robot]

TPC-DS: Total hot run time: 193207 ms

machine: 'aliyun_ecs.c7a.8xlarge_32C64G'
scripts: https://github.com/apache/doris/tree/master/tools/tpcds-tools
TPC-DS sf100 test result on commit a35b1eaee60d232b5ffe91ec285aaa127f1ba045, data reload: false
query1	2531	2263	2272	2263
query2	6241	2091	1999	1999
query3	14129	10168	227	227
query4	32905	23310	23457	23310
query5	3865	441	425	425
query6	271	184	185	184
query7	3991	321	332	321
query8	284	221	226	221
query9	9475	2704	2688	2688
query10	474	263	270	263
query11	17962	15138	15052	15052
query12	146	97	96	96
query13	1549	411	406	406
query14	9133	7199	6991	6991
query15	232	192	181	181
query16	7671	488	451	451
query17	1365	596	581	581
query18	2131	647	632	632
query19	259	197	187	187
query20	122	116	112	112
query21	212	105	108	105
query22	4532	4312	4125	4125
query23	35752	33704	33806	33704
query24	11811	3393	3411	3393
query25	541	414	405	405
query26	725	185	184	184
query27	1977	290	302	290
query28	6501	2511	2484	2484
query29	676	439	446	439
query30	397	318	303	303
query31	1027	819	795	795
query32	93	61	56	56
query33	669	291	279	279
query34	897	521	524	521
query35	868	723	721	721
query36	1115	951	944	944
query37	113	75	72	72
query38	3878	3990	3859	3859
query39	1480	1452	1416	1416
query40	199	101	103	101
query41	54	55	50	50
query42	108	95	98	95
query43	523	485	513	485
query44	1181	777	778	777
query45	185	165	167	165
query46	1144	704	721	704
query47	1893	1800	1803	1800
query48	453	367	378	367
query49	910	402	401	401
query50	802	411	427	411
query51	7246	6966	7156	6966
query52	104	90	95	90
query53	261	188	189	188
query54	1112	456	447	447
query55	77	77	81	77
query56	269	244	234	234
query57	1158	1103	1112	1103
query58	241	211	209	209
query59	3201	2868	2883	2868
query60	284	260	253	253
query61	130	132	105	105
query62	853	662	693	662
query63	220	193	191	191
query64	4104	646	606	606
query65	3241	3210	3188	3188
query66	833	325	311	311
query67	15777	15457	15451	15451
query68	4533	578	582	578
query69	423	256	254	254
query70	1219	1123	1121	1121
query71	382	263	254	254
query72	6095	3957	3951	3951
query73	771	339	337	337
query74	10066	8937	8925	8925
query75	3333	2643	2603	2603
query76	2666	970	927	927
query77	372	273	267	267
query78	10701	9648	9701	9648
query79	8884	589	592	589
query80	2635	431	419	419
query81	568	256	245	245
query82	1701	122	115	115
query83	286	157	153	153
query84	285	78	77	77
query85	2136	311	282	282
query86	476	283	295	283
query87	4671	4188	4251	4188
query88	5600	2395	2376	2376
query89	585	293	292	292
query90	2093	175	182	175
query91	184	164	146	146
query92	59	49	49	49
query93	7625	538	526	526
query94	909	292	289	289
query95	353	244	242	242
query96	637	281	291	281
query97	3322	3155	3142	3142
query98	213	201	201	201
query99	1902	1300	1282	1282
Total cold run time: 320248 ms
Total hot run time: 193207 ms