[To dev/1.3] Pipe: Fixed the bug that Disruptor may not clear the reference & will wait long time after pipe close (#17549)

[Caideyipi]

Description

As the title said.

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This PR has:

• been self-reviewed.
  • concurrent read
  • concurrent write
  • concurrent read and write
• added documentation for new or modified features or behaviors.
• added Javadocs for most classes and all non-trivial methods.
• added or updated version, license, or notice information
• added comments explaining the "why" and the intent of the code wherever would not be obvious
  for an unfamiliar reader.
• added unit tests or modified existing tests to cover new code paths, ensuring the threshold
  for code coverage.
• added integration tests.
• been tested in a test IoTDB cluster.

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Key changed/added classes (or packages if there are too many classes) in this PR

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Quality Gate failed

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Codecov Report

❌ Patch coverage is 78.30882% with 59 lines in your changes missing coverage. Please review.
✅ Project coverage is 41.61%. Comparing base (e96ce95) to head (c15c096).
⚠️ Report is 12 commits behind head on dev/1.3.

Files with missing lines	Patch %	Lines
...region/realtime/disruptor/BatchEventProcessor.java	76.27%	14 Missing ⚠️
...ion/realtime/disruptor/MultiProducerSequencer.java	79.68%	13 Missing ⚠️
...urce/dataregion/realtime/disruptor/RingBuffer.java	76.92%	9 Missing ⚠️
...ource/dataregion/realtime/disruptor/Disruptor.java	80.48%	8 Missing ⚠️
...source/dataregion/realtime/disruptor/Sequence.java	68.18%	7 Missing ⚠️
...dataregion/realtime/disruptor/SequenceBarrier.java	62.50%	6 Missing ⚠️
.../dataregion/realtime/disruptor/SequenceGroups.java	93.75%	1 Missing ⚠️
...altime/listener/PipeInsertionDataNodeListener.java	93.33%	1 Missing ⚠️

Additional details and impacted files

@@ Coverage Diff @@## dev/1.3 #17569 +/- ##
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+ Coverage 41.58% 41.61% +0.03% 
Complexity 227 227 =============================================
Files 3597 3604 +7 Lines 237111 237373 +262 Branches 28694 28729 +35 =============================================
+ Hits 98605 98793 +188 - Misses 138506 138580 +74 

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