net: support sending net.BoundSocket to worker threads and child processes

[guybedford]

This adds support for transferring net.BoundSocket instances to other threads via the worker_threadspostMessage() transfer list, and for sending them to child processes as the sendHandle argument of subprocess.send(), following on from #64399 and #64460.

A BoundSocket reserves a port synchronously at construction time. Making it transferable means a port can be reserved on one thread or process and the bound handle handed off to another to listen or connect on, without racing on the bind.

• BoundSocket implements [kTransfer]/[kTransferList]/[kDeserialize], moving the underlying TCP handle with the same mechanism used for net.Socket and net.Server transfer.
• subprocess.send()/process.send() accept a BoundSocket as sendHandle: the handleConversion entry reuses the transfer protocol on the sending side and the _TransferredBoundSocket deserialization path on the receiving side. The transport is the same as cluster's shared-handle scheduling (SCM_RIGHTS on Unix, WSADuplicateSocket on Windows), both of which carry bind state.
• After transfer or send, the source instance behaves as if adopted: address(), fd() and close() throw ERR_SOCKET_HANDLE_ADOPTED.
• Transfer requires an un-adopted, open TCP handle, otherwise ERR_WORKER_HANDLE_NOT_TRANSFERABLE is thrown. Pipe (path) binds are not transferable, and throw ERR_INVALID_HANDLE_TYPE when sent over IPC.
• On the receiving side the local address is re-derived from the handle rather than trusted from serialized state.

Tests cover a parent-to-worker transfer and a parent-to-child-process send where the receiver listens on the transferred bind, plus guard cases (closed, adopted and pipe-bound sockets). Docs updated in net.md, worker_threads.md, child_process.md and errors.md.

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[mcollina]

lgtm

[guybedford]

I've updated this PR to also include support for transferring a BoundSocket to a child process.