Run CLI workflows on Yieldstar

[djgrant]

Stacked on #37.

Problem

PR 37 left CLI deploy and destroy on the synchronous reconciler, while durable Yieldstar execution existed only as an embedded deploy generator. Destroy had no first-class durable workflow, and the old mutation path still carried its own step runner, renewable leases, refresh fallback, and separate state documentation.

Approach

• Added NodeYieldstarRuntime in @notation/core to wire Yieldstar 0.5.0's WorkflowRunner, SQLite heap, stores, scheduler, timers, and resident event loop.
• Moved deployApp and destroyApp onto deployWithYieldstar and destroyWithYieldstar, with the CLI printing resumable execution IDs and using one .notation/workflows.db state path.
• Added durable destroy with shared deploy/destroy coordination, reverse dependency ordering, retryable provider waits, conditional state deletion, orphan hydration, lifecycle events, and replay-safe provider delete steps.
• Removed the synchronous mutation class, operation step runner, refresh path, state lease contract and implementations, CLI file-state selection, and superseded documentation.
• Kept provider clients and live resource objects inside Notation's workflow closures; the outer runtime owns execution, waiting, state, and coordination.

Result

CLI deploy and destroy now remain resident across Yieldstar timer wake-ups. Reusing an execution ID after a crash replays completed provider calls from the durable heap, including delete calls completed before state removal. Embedded callers retain the generator boundary and can supply their own Yieldstar runtime.

Checks

• CI=true pnpm build — 13/13 tasks passed.
• CI=true pnpm typecheck — 11/11 tasks passed.
• CI=true pnpm test:once — 75 passed, 4 skipped.
• Added coverage for resident long-provider waits, create crash replay, destroy crash replay, retryable delete waiting, reverse dependency destroy order, conditional store identity/version, concurrent workflow coordination, orphan deletion, and drift repair.

[djgrant]

Superseded by the squashed two-PR stack: #42 (reconciliation foundation) and #43 (runtime and CLI cutover). The combined result of that stack is byte-identical to this stack's final tree.