fix: revert install-links default back to false

[nlf]

this new default was unintentionally breaking so we are reverting it as a bug fix, see nodejs/node#46542

note that this is technically a breaking change. however, since the new default was not delivered appropriately we are reverting this in a patch release as we consider it a bug fix.

if you have already updated to npm@9 and your project includes dependencies using the file: protocol, then it is possible that this change will cause the npm ci command to fail informing you that your package.json and package-lock.json are out of sync. if this happens, re-running npm install will correct the lockfile and cause the npm ci command to work again as expected.

[npm-cli-bot]

no statistically significant performance changes detected

timing results

app-large	clean	lock-only	cache-only	cache-only peer-deps	modules-only	no-lock	no-cache	no-modules	no-clean	no-clean audit
npm@8	43.418 ±7.20	18.400 ±0.32	17.055 ±0.10	19.955 ±0.65	3.127 ±0.05	3.103 ±0.04	2.616 ±0.12	11.919 ±0.26	2.545 ±0.09	4.003 ±0.11
#6142	44.560 ±4.78	18.457 ±0.24	16.924 ±0.30	19.754 ±1.22	3.141 ±0.03	3.132 ±0.04	2.492 ±0.11	11.815 ±0.15	2.388 ±0.17	3.727 ±0.37

app-medium	clean	lock-only	cache-only	cache-only peer-deps	modules-only	no-lock	no-cache	no-modules	no-clean	no-clean audit
npm@8	29.238 ±2.14	14.663 ±0.02	13.184 ±0.05	14.015 ±0.28	2.827 ±0.06	2.791 ±0.01	2.601 ±0.01	9.139 ±0.00	2.392 ±0.03	5.059 ±2.35
#6142	30.964 ±1.98	14.695 ±0.24	13.110 ±0.07	14.474 ±0.23	2.831 ±0.04	2.868 ±0.07	2.423 ±0.01	9.168 ±0.08	2.264 ±0.04	3.255 ±0.02

[MylesBorins]

LGTM