fix(vite): improve vite-node hmr

[antfu]

🔗 Linked issue

closenuxt/nuxt#14469

❓ Type of change

• 📖 Documentation (updates to the documentation or readme)
• 🐞 Bug fix (a non-breaking change that fixes an issue)
• 👌 Enhancement (improving an existing functionality like performance)
• ✨ New feature (a non-breaking change that adds functionality)
• ⚠️ Breaking change (fix or feature that would cause existing functionality to change)

📚 Description

This PR implemented the full HMR support of vite-node as mentioned in #6154 (comment)

Re nuxt/nuxt#14469, the bug is caused because in the release build, entry.mjs is laying under node_modules which bypasses the cache clear up due to #6153

📝 Checklist

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• I have updated the documentation accordingly.

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[pi0]

This is nice solution <3

Locally trying on an external project (MacOS), Server HMR seems perfectly working but only we are invalidating some unnecessary chunks. Which could be probably improved later.